Kissing tips

What is romance without a kiss?
When wishing for romance, your kisses
had better be good to make a favorable
impression. It may not be fair, but some
will judge you on your first kiss as to
whether or not they will want to see you
again. In other words, there needs to be
good chemistry when kissing.
A good kiss delivers a powerful impact! If
you're a great kisser, you're going to turn
your date on and you will have a definite
edge.
What distinguishes a good kisser from the
kisser we all want to forget? The key is to
be soft and gentle and follow their lead.
Here are some good romantic kissing tips
to enhance your love life:
STEP ONE
Be careful not to startle - watch and wait
for the signal to proceed
Avoid the ‘ambush’ kiss (although these
can be exciting as your relationship
progresses.)
Look deeply into your partner’s eyes.
This will send the message that you like
them and want to be closer to them.
Look for their signals as well. Look for a
warm, kind smile (even a slight smile is
good; it doesn’t have to be BIG.)
Pay attention to the look on your loved
one’s face. This will indicate where they
want to go with this kiss.
STEP TWO
Look for good balance. As you move
closer to that magical kiss, you don’t want
to be leaning too forward awkwardly to
get there.
As you move closer you are sending
signals. You want your body to be in a
comfortable position during the kiss, so
you can enjoy every moment of it.
Go for a light touch just before the kiss.
While a hand lightly on the face is a
definite signal of intimacy, holding hands
combined with eye contact and a warm
look can indicate the beginning of a great
kiss to come.
Make sure you are aligned correctly at
this point. This means not only getting
your lips on track with theirs, but getting
the head tilted correctly as well.
Tilt your head slightly to one side first.
Your partner will likely react and tilt the
other way. This is a mutual sign that the
kiss will be very welcomed.
STEP THREE
Relax your lips, close your eyes.
Move in slowly. During step number two
you made sure the two of you were
aligned correctly, now you can close your
eyes as you’re just about to make
contact.
Relax your lips, not tightly pressed
together. Give your partner the pleasant
experience of feeling your lips softly
against theirs.
Your lips should be recently moistened,
but not wet.
STEP FOUR
Relax your lips, tilt your head and breathe
evenly.
Moving in, you can part your lips slightly
just before contact. Keep your lips
relaxed, your tongue in your mouth.
Keep your head tilted so both of you can
still breathe comfortably on contact and
as the perfect kiss is held...
SAVOR every moment ... be slow, gentle,
easy.
STEP FIVE
Keep it sweet, not too long and not too
wet.
Don’t pull away too quickly or make any
quick movements. Savor. Savor. Savor.
Feel the power and romance of the kiss.
Enjoy the moment!
STEP SIX
Take your time and don’t rush. Make eye
contact, nonverbal and verbal messages.
To end, pull away slowly and make eye
contact again. Show a satisfied, warm
smile to reinforce how you feel.
Enjoy the closeness, relax, and finish the
kiss with a warm embrace.
A few, thoughtful words, such as, “That
was nice,” can be whispered. Try to
reinforce how you felt about your kiss
with positive words. Your partner will
appreciate this and this can break the ice
a little.
Now that you have mastered the
romance of a kiss....you are well on your
way to learn even more about how to
enhance your romance life!
THE ROMANCE AND SCIENCE OF KISSING
What is that feeling people get from a
good kiss that's so hard to explain? How
does kissing come into play when being
romantic?
Women often compare a good kiss to
"melting butter" and like being "hit by a
wave," according to a recent survey. Men
often describe it as similar to "vibrations
at a concert" or a "three pointer at the
buzzer to win the NCAA basketball
tournament," according to the same
survey.
Experts have proven there is a lot of
physiology behind the warm and fuzzy
feelings that come from a good kiss.
Feelings of romantic love, and kissing,
stimulate the same type of brain activity
as many sports, such as: parachuting,
bungee jumping and distance running, for
example. These same types of activities
cause the brain to experience a surge in
norepinephrine, dopamine and
phenylethylamine (or just PEA to some.)
These neurotransmitters attach to
pleasure receptors in the brain and create
feelings of euphoria, giddiness, elation
and such.
So, next time you feel romantic and want
to show your love to someone special, go
for that wonderful kiss -- it will definitely
leave a lasting impression!
A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature
to stop speech when words become
superfluous. ~ Ingrid Bergman